Adam Thoughts #300.

January 7, 2019 in , Adam Thoughts by Adam Dunlap

All thoughts are original. Did not include Twitter posts. Too tired. Will add in next week.

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I don’t have any game. I’m just a nice guy.
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The Adam Dichotomy.

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The prettiest girls filter to the top. It’s a phenomenon I don’t quite understand, but perhaps it has something to do with my filter. It also might be a mathematical principle.

What makes this different from me simply choosing the girls, is the bad ones literally stop talking to me. It might be because I don’t show the enthusiasm that resonates with them, but sometimes I do. That’s why it’s eerie.

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What you want is someone who is gorgeous who doesn’t care about being gorgeous.

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Scalable empathy.

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Do you want to conquer the world or do you just want to fall in love and have a simple life? Good question. Good question.

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I pathologized who I thought I was supposed to be. What a mindf*ck.

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Do you want find a diamond in the rough or do you want to find a diamond?

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Frankly, the women I asked out who didn’t want me simply weren’t that great of women. And that’s not ego – it’s objective. For me it was a constant battle of trading up. When I look back at all the women who said no to me in my life, I realize with perspective that with rare exception they actually weren’t that cool. They weren’t that fit, they weren’t that smart, or they had dad issues and didn’t know what a quality man was. These women all had issues, and the ones who liked me were actually the solid, grounded women which was a reflection of who I was. It was about finding someone who reflected me in a lot of deep ways, and the women who didn’t… it was not because they were too good for me, it was because I was too good for them. This is what has become clear to me over time.

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It’s about process. That’s what matters – not the outcome. The right process yields the right outcome

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[All Along by Superbus – (Seven Lions Remix)]